Former The Bachelor contestant, Rachael Kirkconnell, opened up about her private life throughout a latest podcast look, revealing she hasn’t had sex “in years,” regardless of solely not too long ago splitting from her longtime boyfriend Matt James in January 2025.
On the newest episode of Extra Dirty, Kirkconnell admits her lengthy dry spell has her feeling like she’s ranging from scratch.
“I really feel like a virgin once more,” she mentioned. “I haven’t had intercourse means longer than you assume. I’ll simply put it that means. It’s been years. Years. It has been so lengthy.”
Kirkconnell defined that the break from bodily intimacy has modified her mindset on intercourse, including, “And that’s why I’m saying like I really feel like a virgin once more to the place I don’t need to simply give it as much as anybody.”
“It’s like virtually like I can’t identical to, hook up with somebody random at this level as a result of it’s been so lengthy that I would like it to be unimaginable,” she continued. “I’ve been so chronically single. I haven’t been on a single date. I’m not on the apps.”
“I’m not judging anybody who’s on the apps, however I simply don’t assume that might work effectively for me. However actually, if it will get to a degree, I might need to leap on them.”
Kirkconnell additionally shared that she identifies as demisexual, that means she solely feels sexual attraction as soon as she’s developed a deep emotional reference to somebody.
“I can say, ‘Wow, that individual is admittedly engaging.’ I clearly discover them actually engaging, I believe they’re actually sizzling, however I don’t care after that, trigger they may nonetheless be like a horrible individual or have the worst persona ever, and that might make me not need to sleep with them as a result of that absolutely turns me off.”
“I assume their attraction can solely get to date for me. Possibly that is my drawback, I do not know.”
Kirkconnell and James first met on his season of The Bachelor in 2020. After their cut up, she claimed James introduced the breakup on Instagram simply “three hours” after ending issues whereas they had been on trip in Tokyo.
On the Call Her Daddy podcast, Kirkconnell laid out the rationale for his or her breakup.
“He mentioned that on the finish of the day, there have been simply qualities about me that he worries about having in a spouse. There are issues that we aren’t suitable with, and the entire accountability and saying sorry and all that was actually the primary factor,” she defined.
She continued, “It was simply a kind of issues the place he, I believe, simply had this realization that ‘I ought to need to suggest to you by this time. Like, at this level in our relationship, I needs to be wanting these issues and I needs to be prepared for that. However I’m not nonetheless. I nonetheless don’t really feel like we’re prepared or I don’t really feel like I’m prepared. I don’t know if I ever see myself proposing to you. I can’t really see myself married to you.”‘
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